The first thing we think of in the west when evaluating war is how many people died. We scan the numbers on the television and put the size of the conflict in perspective in terms of loss of life. Inevitably a foreign correspondent somewhere throws in the term "economic cost". What the heck does that mean? I hate to even put the phrase down here as I fear people will groan and flip to another website. I would like you to empathize with me for a moment what options people have. We in North America haven't had a modern war on our continent and have very little idea of the impact one.

My goal is to help you feel something of how I felt recently. Almost all of these revelations occurred to me over a couple weeks driving around an area that was once the epicenter of the Iran Iraq war 18 years ago. TO put it in perspective over a million people died in that war.

The thing that really impacted me was driving by an apartment with a huge hole in the wall. Seeing in through the hole in the wall I could see a kitchen and some kitchen furniture scattered around the room the table still standing. Cracked tiles and a couple of pictures hanging crookedly on the wall, a clock hanging by its wires stuck at a numberless 5:27.

No one lived there. But someone still owned it. Their table waited for dinner. Where did the people go? What happens to a place like this?

If a bomb comes through your roof and blows a hole in it, or soldiers fight from your kitchen window or roof top. Fragments, rockets, bullets and other munitions of war find their intended purpose in your walls. What would you do? My house the battle ground?

You, like me and most others would leave. Try and find somewhere safe. Perhaps a new area or town where the fighting is not so fierce. You would attempt to resume some sort of life.

In comparison in the west we invest in our childrens future by having them involved in a variety of activities. Sports, music, education anything promoting interaction with other kids. What would happen if children in North America couldn't do these things? What would the impact be on them and our society? Would they be able to contribute? Could they get a job? If you took away their education what would you have? If there was no socialization with other kids would they be able to communicate with one another as adults?

Now add a war. Children would learn different skills, learn different values. Children are sponges and absorb everything around them. Do you think they will have fond memories of childhood? Will they think highly of their former enemies? Will they be capable of rebuilding the world that is left to them?

There is no "normal" in war. Can you prepare children for their future or are you just surviving? If you are just surviving yourself are you preparing for your own future? What about your later years where you may not be able to look out for yourself? Are there hospitals if you get sick? We have hospitals in the west that are full of sick people without any wounded.

People who leave due to war are extremely unlikely to leave a situation where their family or loved ones are left unscathed. What wounds will memories reopen?

Once the war eventually ends would I return? Perhaps I would go see what is left of my former home? Even if there is something left, is it worth fixing? Can I find a job to finance repairs? If I start a business will anyone have any money to buy things from me? Can I buy the materials to do repairs? Can I call up the municipal government to hook up water and electricity? When I flush the toilet is the pipe still connected? Where will it flow out?

Perhaps I should just stay where I am. Where I moved to to avoid the fighting in the first place.

How long does it take to build a town. Likely the town you live in took many years to reach its size. If it boomed quickly, it was likely due to some great source of income that people came to take advantage of. After a war these factors don't exist.

What of my neighbors? Will anyone return? What if they are dead. What if I fix my place up and the view out the front window is rubble. Could I ever resell that? How much would it be worth?

A lot of people don't return. Maybe they are killed and their property left to someone who will never move there. What happens to that half destroyed house. Who is going to fix it? Who can buy it? Who would want to?

What about the community full of homes half destroyed. The buildings that survived or that are repaired are surrounded by the remnants of war. Are there unexploded shells in the rubble? How is that supposed to inspire people to return? It takes a long time. It takes a healthy economy. Where does the money come from?

This is happening today. Right now as you read this it is happening somewhere, it is likely not in the news. This is a situation every war zone in the world has to deal with. Rebuilding. When the death toll stops so do the cameras. The destruction remains.

One of the most underestimated factors is the environmental impact of a war? Sure there are some craters out there. Maybe some unexploded bombs. Land mines are usually hidden under the ground put there as a desperate measure of defense. How many decades will they stay hidden before they end a life? Those are the little things.

The less obvious leave the largest impact. During the Iran Iraq war a makeshift bridge was made over the Baramasheer river in order to get tanks across. The river was filled up with dirt. Not only did it stop the river, it prevented the ocean tide from rising up the river. This caused a salt water flood. Rich soil that had once been able to cultivate was no longer able to sustain life. The oldest gardens in human history dead. Still 18 years later the soil is contaminated with salt. Some tall grass grows wild. 30 ft date tree stumps stand in the middle of a desert of dirt. No leaves, just dead black stalks. Yet when you take a handful of soil it is dark and rich. The salt from the soil it will this way until someone removes .

So how do you remove salt from the soil? It takes many generations. You have to flood the area with fresh water. Which is limited in this area. Let it evaporate so the salt crystalizes on the top. You then need to physically scrape the salt away. Flood it again and repeat the process. It takes generations before anything grows again.

I drove by a home and could envision how beautiful it once must have been. Next to a river a few miles from the sea. Cool breeze on a hot day, remnants of a large garden and date grove. Would have been something special. Today the house is pock marked with bullet holes. Now abandoned. Only the signs of bad memories remain.

War does not stop when the fighting ends.

Some inspiring places that have been taken from us.